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Why Douchebags Get Laid: How Insecurity Manipulates You
Why do douchebags get laid? this is the million dollar question, right ladies? Maybe I should even direct this question towards the men. We all know the stereotypical douchebag. Maybe a little overdressed, overconfident, talks too loud, and seems to get away with saying shit that would get most men slapped. This is the guy who can seemingly do and say what he wants and, at the end of the night, go home with a girl or two on his arm. However, I’m not talking about that stereotypical douchebag, going out and conquering as many women in a weekend as possible. You do you. I have no problem with a…
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The Fountain of Youth: How to Revive Your Skin
did you know it takes 28 days for a skin care product to change the appearance of your skin? We all know that it is important to take care of your skin, but just how important is something many people don’t realize. You should be washing your face twice daily. Each time you wash your face, you should be actually washing it two times. Why? The first wash only takes of 30% of any dirt, bacteria, debris, and environmental damage that impacts your skin health away. So, that means that you are still left with 70% of the dirt, bacteria, debris, and environmental damage on your face. That’s why it’s…
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To My Little Girl on the Swing
Dear Daughter, This is an open letter to the little girl I raised into a woman. I know you don’t want to acknowledge my influence on your life, but I feel it necessary to voice my rebuttal. You see, everything I’ve loved and lost has claw marks. You always have seen the world in black and grey. Your version of the truth is not the actual truth, and I feel I need to set the record straight. Seeing the reality of it all, those black and gray areas (that I once fought for) have so much more color. At the time of this letter, one of those areas is my…
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A Selfie A Day- The Truth Behind the Lens
I’m a picture addict. I love to capture moments. Even the smallest, most seemingly insignificant moments I like to capture. Those are memories. Once they are gone, those moments can’t be recreated. I’ve always been a picture taker. Even when I was young, I always kept a collage of pictures on my wall. They were my memories on display and I could relive them every time I looked up. …I absolutely hated myself. Most of us like to relive the happy moments, but what happens when you stop seeing the beauty of your daily life? What happens when you don’t feel there are any moments worth capturing? For me, I’ve…
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The Challenges of Co-parenting With a Narcissist
divorce sucks. it doesn’t just suck, it sucks in a way that most other things never will. it completely sucks the life out of you. I’ve experienced a lot of shit in my life and watching my kids deal with the aftermath of my divorce has been nothing short of total emotional chaos. I’m an adult. I make my choices and I have to live with them. I’m strong enough to handle the consequences of my actions. Children, however, lack the emotional capacity to really persevere when their family falls apart. Especially if your children are teenagers. Their emotional state is in the infancy of its development and they are…
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10 Signs Your Relationship is Dead
Every relationship has its share of ups and downs. That’s just part of life. Sure you’re going to have days that the two of you are madly in love, and other days where you can’t stand the sight of them. Sometimes, those days where you are crazy in love become more infrequent, and the days you want to do something that might get you 10-20 increase exponentially. Before it gets to the point where you have to start doing time and getting yourself ready for your new prison girlfriend, there are definitely warning signs that your relationship is over. For me, I experienced each and every one of these personally……
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10 Sings You’re In Love with a Narcissist
Your relationship with a narcissist will be nothing short of manic. it will be completely addictive. In fact, more addictive in nature than any other relationship you’ve ever experienced in the past. Why? It’s fairly simple. A narcissist isn’t capable of having a normal relationship. The narcissist will only have a relationship that fits their terms. They don’t share. Narcissists are frustratingly charming and charismatic. They are the type who will sweep you off your feet because YOU are the prize they are after. Every girl wants to be swept off their feet. We’ve been conditioned from and early age to look for our version of Prince Charming. How many…
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Keep My Name Out of Your Mouth
Once the respect is gone from a relationship, the love is soon to follow. I know this all to clearly, as I’m sure many of you out there do as well. I could almost change it to say that once the love is gone, so is the respect. These two items seem to go hand in hand. That’s fine if you don’t have anything connecting yourself to the other person, but what about when you have children? What about when you are trying to raise children into strong adults and you have to still try to work with this other person? That takes a decent amount of respect. Especially if…
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Shut The F**k Up: My Stretchmarks Are Sexy
The Other day I was out Running Errands. I decided to stop at the gas station. As i was there, a young girl, maybe 22, came up to me and asked me if i knew that my stretch marks were showing. I was really confused. I wasn’t even sure if there was anyone behind me or if she was actually talking to me. I think just the context of what she said, to a total stranger, it kind of threw me off for a second. Then it registered. I couldn’t believe that someone could be so bold to a total stranger. It was early in the morning and I was…
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Don’t Date a Man Like Dad: Advice From a Mother to Her Daughter
Recently, I was consoling my daughter about the troubles she was having with her ex-boyfriend, post breakup. Teenagers, especially teenage girls, are emotional creatures. We all know this. It seems with the newfound movement of “girl power,” it’s no longer ok to admit that women are emotional creatures. It’s nothing against the feminist movement, and I’m not putting women back 200 years by admitting this well-known fact. All I’m saying is that we are more driven by our emotions than our male counterparts. She was telling me about the details of her breakup and I started to notice some similarities between the way her ex was treating her and the…
